Showing posts with label 30 Before 30. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 30 Before 30. Show all posts

1.30.2012

Learnin' to Fly (#1)

I have to be honest.  The idea for my #1 on my 30 Before 30 list was a Groupon for flying lessons that came across my email while I was living in NYC.  At the time, I was like, why not?  And then work got in the way, of course.  Anyway, now that I have weekends (well, this one may have been my last before the bar exam), I thought it would be perfect to do.  Fortunately, Groupon cooperated and had another special. So in December, I purchased flying lessons for the bargain price of $169.  I sort of just bought the lessons without thinking through the fact that I would be UP IN THE AIR thousands of feet above the ground where I could plummet to my death if something went awry.  This did not enter my mind until I was in the flight simulator part of my lesson (good timing, right?).  At that point, it was too late because we were already walking to the plane.

For those of you that knew me in high school, me taking flying lessons would crack you up.  I was the girl that took drivers' ed at 16 and didn't get my license until almost 4 months after my 17th birthday.  I was rather busy in high school (extracurriculars and whatnot) and had a boyfriend who was a year ahead of me and thus could drive me to school too.  I also was the girl that burst into tears when her drivers' ed instructor told her to turn on the car.  Yes, this same girl flew a freakin' airplane on Saturday (and started the propellers all by herself)!

I should also note that my hubby is deathly afraid of flying.  He gets very nervous/ anxious in commercial planes.  I'm SHOCKED that he came up into the plane with me.  I'm also very proud of him.  He made a decision that he didn't want to miss me crossing something off my "bucket list" (that's what we call it to people we don't know. 30 Before 30 is harder to explain).  What a sweet guy and good for him.

So, the photos.

Me in front of the 4-person plane (so tiny!).




Erik while we were loading up.
The instructor was going through pre-flight stuff while I was so responsibly getting my photo taken.
The feeling of being in the air is indescribable (at least by me).  It was so peaceful up there.
We flew at sunset, which was perfect.
SFO
Doesn't this look like one of the sentry robots from the Matrix?
Me flying without the instructor's help.  Watch out for hills!!
Downtown SF
Golden Gate Park
Focusing.  You can see the Golden Gate Bridge in the background to the left.
Golden Gate Bridge



Alcatraz at 2,000 ft.  I was surprised at how built up it was.  Not sure why that was surprising...
SF
Getting ready to land
We made it!
I am SO SO THANKFUL for this experience.  I'm thankful for having the money to be able to swing the lessons and thankful for my "just do it" perspective.  I think that one thing my father's early passing taught me is that we never truly know when our time is going to come so we should live each day to its absolute fullest.  Sure, I probably should have been studying and sure, we probably should be saving our money for a new home, but you know what? I wouldn't take that hour back for anything.  I flew a plane.  Flew it.  By myself (for some of the time).  I'm so happy that I put this on my 30B30 list because I'm not sure I could have justified it otherwise, which is also silly.  I want to go up again sometime (maybe not very soon because I do need to start focusing on passing the California bar exam).  I think I may actually pursue my pilot's license, or at the very least, take a few more lessons and see what I think since they will count towards the license anyway.  It was a little difficult to keep up with all the gauges and radio communications, but I'm sure that gets easier with practice.

At any rate, I'm going to check this one off the list and consider myself a badass for at least a little while.  I think I've earned the basking in my own glory for at least a week. :)  I'm sure Erik will get annoyed with me soon and then I'll come back to earth again.  In the meantime, I have a new happy place -- a feeling of weightlessness and floating on air.

1.15.2012

More Kiva Giving and Real Life Volunteering (#19)

Yes, I'm getting caught up!  I've been working on my 30 Before 30 behind the scenes and now I'm sharing with all of you.

I've been staying true to my goal of every time my Kiva loans get repaid to pay it forward to other people in need.  Since Erik and I have been thinking about the logistics of buying a home and saving for said home (while trying to get out of debt -- grad school for 8 years combined + living long distance for a year in two expensive cities will do that), I've decided to start helping people with their housing needs.  Meet my new Kiva borrowers:

Chimeddorj Chadraabal from Mongolia
"Mr. Chimeddorj, 27, is a fireman in the security service of the airport in Ulaanbaatar, the capital city of Mongolia. He has been in his job for five years, and his monthly salary usually does not meet his family's necessities. He is unmarried and lives with his father and his two younger sisters.

They live in a house that was built in early part of 1970. Lately it has became old and difficult to live in because it has been damaged in its all parts such as the roof, walls and internal decoration. He is planning to make insulation in its wall at first due to the cold and heat loss during the wintertime. It is important to warm his house and to reduce further smoky coal usage. Also, he will buy an electric furnace for his house heating. According to his plan, the smoky coal usage of his family will be stopped after these renovations at his home.

The loan he is taking will be used to purchase the building materials to make adjustments to his house and purchase the electric furnace for smokeless heating."

Haneen Abu Hableh from Palestine
"Haneen is a 26-year-old young woman. She is married and a mother for one son and two daughters. Her husband is a blacksmith with low income. Haneen wants to purchase new home furniture such as bedroom furniture for her children, living room seats, dinning room furniture, etc. to offer to her family their needs for furniture to live in better and comfortable home conditions. Haneen needs to take a loan from FATEN for 2,000 USD since her husband's low income isn't enough to cover all these purchases. When Haneen gets the loan, she will be able to purchase all the family needs for furniture, so she will satisfy her family needs and offer to them better home living conditions."

Hannen was not photographed (but her husband was) because she is a conservative woman.  In fact, all the women I was looking at to invest in were all conservative and their husbands were photographed instead.

And, so you all don't think I'm just going to donate my way through my 30 charitable acts, Erik and I participated in a food sort at Second Harvest Food Bank through my firm.  It's actually pretty cool to work for a place that organizes group volunteering on "school nights".  It was fun to hang out with my colleagues and "do good". We made bags of food for senior citizens.  It's sad to think that this may have been their only groceries for the week.  And quality control? Not really existent.  When you're doing something on that scale, I can see that it could be hard.  I found 2 expired cans of food in my bags. Was I the only one looking? At any rate, we filled 1,050 bags of food for seniors in our neighborhood. Wow.  Here's a photo from the warehouse.
Us in front of all the bags we filled.

Books! (#2)

I have a confession.  I have been holding out on you guys.  I've completed 4 books since August 2011!  They are all audiobooks, but I say they count and props to me for using my unpacking/ cleaning/ home-creating/ commuting productively.  I may or may not have finished a real book, but I can't remember so it doesn't count.  I have been working on An Omnivore's Dilemma for awhile so it's unlikely.


Anyway, I present #s 4, 5, 6 and 7.  Too bad bar review books won't count toward my 30 books. . .

Great Expectations

I feel like I should have read this book, like, 10+ years ago when I was still in high school, but, alas, I did not. I enjoyed the twist towards the end about Pip's benefactor (spoiler alert).  I thoroughly enjoyed being whisked back to Victorian England, and it made me want to reread A Tale of Two Cities again.  That being said, I don't remember much about the story itself, mostly because it's been awhile and just ask Erik: I never remember books I read.  Sigh.  Should save me money when I get older at least. Also, makes me wonder whether I did, in fact, read this 10+ years ago.  No matter.  New to me this time.

Around the World in 80 Days

Again, this was a book I thoroughly enjoyed but my stupid Audible app deleted all my insightful and witty comments that I bookmarked while listening to it!  I added those comments so I could share my insights with you guys... Sigh. Anyway, it was a nice adventure that transported me away from my boxes.  It also was an interesting illustration of what you could do if money was no object.




The Feminine Mystique

The most striking thing about this book is that it could have been written in 2011 not 1963.  I feel like the same family dynamics keep re-occurring.  The one big difference is that in Betty Friedan's time, there was immense societal pressure to stay at home and excel at homemaking -- even if that wasn't where your true passion was.  I have several friends that went to college and have made the choice to stay in the home.  That's the key part though.  They chose to become stay at home moms.  I, personally, don't think I could do it.  I think I would end up alphabetizing our pantry or some other such nonsense.  I also don't think I could be at home with kids all day. But who knows, right? Anyway, back to the book.  Another really interesting thing that I hadn't thought about before was the influence of advertising on women in the home.  The guilt that women would feel about not doing enough for the family.  A new washing machine/dryer? It did not necessarily ease the burden on the wife/mother because now it meant that bed linens could be changed once a week or sometimes even more frequently.  One part of the book I found particularly offensive was Ms. Friedan comparing women in the home to holocaust victims in concentration camps.  Yes, she went there.  So offensive!  At any rate, it got a bit much at times and she seemed very preoccupied with sex in several of the chapters, but all in all, I felt like I learned something and it made me think about the choice that I might make and the choices that my friends have made.  It also made me feel like I could be more efficient with my housework.
 
A History of the World in 6 Glasses
This may be my favorite book of the 4 mentioned in this post.  From Amazon.com:
A History of the World in 6 Glasses tells the story of humanity from the Stone Age to the 21st century through the lens of beer, wine, spirits, coffee, tea, and cola. Beer was first made in the Fertile Crescent and by 3000 B.C.E. was so important to Mesopotamia and Egypt that it was used to pay wages. In ancient Greece wine became the main export of her vast seaborne trade, helping spread Greek culture abroad. Spirits such as brandy and rum fueled the Age of Exploration, fortifying seamen on long voyages and oiling the pernicious slave trade. Although coffee originated in the Arab world, it stoked revolutionary thought in Europe during the Age of Reason, when coffeehouses became centers of intellectual exchange. And hundreds of years after the Chinese began drinking tea, it became especially popular in Britain, with far-reaching effects on British foreign policy. Finally, though carbonated drinks were invented in 18th-century Europe they became a 20th-century phenomenon, and Coca-Cola in particular is the leading symbol of globalization.
It was a very cool 7 hours and 38 minutes.  I would sit in my garage and wait to hear just a little bit more.  A few tidbits (because the Audible app didn't crash this one).  Tom Standage talks about how shared glasses equal community because you can share a beverage in a way that you can't share food.  There are ways to share a cut of anything that's not entirely equitable and gives someone an undesirable portion.  I suppose the very last sips of the shared beverage would be yucky but you catch my drift.  Another thing I did not know was that originally coffee was considered a type of liquor.  He also described coffeehouses as the internet in the age of reason.  Also, back when Coca-Cola was originally invented people would combine soda (even the coca-cola flavored variety) with wine on a regular basis (starting in France).

So that's all the books for now.  I'm going to finish the Omnivore's Dilemma soon -- it's a tough read.  I feel like if you read that book and read all the articles about how terrible the food at the grocery store is for you, you would be a recluse farmer and have your garden in a biosphere so that acid rain didn't get to it (but then you would have water table concerns... oh heck, we're all screwed).  I've also recently listened to a short story by Ann Patchett, "This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage."  It was poignant and gave me some much needed prospective on divorce.  I mean that in terms of I know several people who have been through divorces in the last few years and I wish I had encountered this book sooner so I could have been a better friend to them.  Anyway, also on the agenda: In the Plex by Steven Levy, The King's Speech by Mark Logue and Billy Budd, Sailor by Herman Melville (my dad's favorite book by good ol' Herman).